Monday, February 29, 2016

WL2016 Week9 Lessons Learned. Keeping Up With the Joneses, No Sugar for me.

About 12 years ago my daughter was accepted to a very exclusive private school.  I was happy.  What a great place to leave her all day.  I thought it had superior education and any after school activity you could think of was right on campus, art, ballet, swimming, Chinese, chess club, canoeing, everything. 

One evening I was sitting next to one of my wealthiest clients, whom I respected very much.  He asked about my daughter.  I told him she was accepted to the preppy school.  He said, “Wonderful!”  I said I was concerned among the students we would be near the poorest.  I wondered how that would impact her, with the other children being able to have and do more.  Mr. Wells said, “Marian, my entire life I have had to learn how to deal with people who are richer, smarter and better looking than I.”  This was some of the best advice I ever received.  Mr. Wells was rich, smart and good looking. 

When you go on a diet people are going to tell you how to eat.  They think they know better.  Some are selling something.  I am appalled Oprah is telling people how to eat.  That’s pure unadulterated greed.  Oprah buys Weight Watchers while she is fat, goes on the program and loses weight so you should too?!!!  How much money does she need?  Oprah has not maintained her weight over the long term.  How can she give you advice?  I don’t know how you should eat.  I only know what works for me.  If I didn’t know it before, and I did know it, I now know absolutely sugar hurts me.

I told you last week I went to an event.  I ate light.  I had a couple fru-fru drinks.  I awoke in so much stomach pain.  It lasted three days.  The next two days I awoke with a headache.  I went to the gym a couple times.  I crapped out after an hour.  I have incredible stamina and strength for a person in a body that looks like mine.  Crapping out after an hour is not normal.  My friend, Joel, asked what I thought was wrong.  I told him I thought I had sugar poisoning.  Joel doesn’t believe in sugar poisoning.  I don’t care what he believes.  I know my body.

I am so tremendously impressed with my friend Nancy’s weight loss.  She did it strictly with portion control.  It doesn’t work for me.  By Monday I took my intake back to vegetables, protein and fat.  I allow myself a drink at night, but not a mojito or caipirinha.  I feel so good.  My stamina is back. 

I had my hair done last week.  I have been going to my stylist, Dennis, for 8 years.  He and I got to having one of those happiest of conversations, what would you do if you won the lottery?  I would write, go to the gym, travel and sing more.  I would go the spa more.  No, strike that.  My friend Alexandra goes to spas all the time.  Last week she told me she was on her way to the spa to get her fat rolled.  What is that?  She has no fat.  Fat rolling sounds painful.  I would not start with spas.  I would go to the best allergist and get checked out.  When I was a kid I was allergic to everything.  I was asthmatic.  I was so sickly.  I pretty much outgrew those allergies.  Or did I?  I think there are foods my body cannot process.  One of my good friends told me to go to an acupuncturist.  I would do that.  I watch Dr. Phil.  I would go to the PNP Center and get a complete work up.  Dr. Phil makes that sound fun.  



Listen to yourself.  Learn about yourself.  Oh, you want to know if I lost weight last week.  I sure did, and a lot of it.  Unfortunately it was the same pounds that came on during sugar intoxication.

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