I was talking
to my friend, Helga. She read
one of my stories about a duckling. She
said it was poignant. She commented I
must really like ducks.
Helga is
a retired psychologist. I am a
lawyer. We are both in listening
professions and are careful with our words.
I have no exceptional love of ducks.
They are all around my house and I pay attention to them. I have exceptional love for most babies, not
cockroach babies, but ducklings are cute and fuzzy.
From observing
the ducklings with their mothers, I learned the ducklings constantly peep. That can be translated into English, “Mom,
Mom, Mom.” The duck chortles in return, “I
am here. I am here.” That’s how they communicate.
When a single
duckling is lost from its mother it peeps non-stop and runs around like a
cartoon duck, panicked. Unless it finds
its mother, it is going to die, for ducklings cannot survive on their own. That is intolerable to me, I can’t watch
that and not try to help. I grab the duckling with the
intention of keeping it comfortable until it can be returned. I have returned healthy ducklings to
their families, I do not recall how many.
I gave
two ducklings to two different mothers, on different dates, because healthy ducklings don’t like being in a
cage in my house. They love being with a
duck mother and other ducklings. Both
those ducklings died, as did many of the mothers’ other ducklings.
I have
taken in ducklings that appear healthy, but die quickly, from parvovirus.
I took
in a very sick duckling with botulism.
She died. I have since learned
how to treat botulism, don’t know that it will work, but I will try.
I kept a
duckling that was limping for a week.
She is alive and back with her family.
That’s an awesome feeling.
The odds
of me taking in a duckling and having it survive are low, but I can’t stand the
sight of an abandoned duckling. It’s not
a particular love of ducks, it’s a particular love of helpless babies. I can't stand watching them suffer.
Conversely,
there are 497 children still separated due to the family separation policy that
ended on June 20th.
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